Love is more than an emotion. Love is a decision, we can choose either to love or not love. Each human being was born with the ability to love and be loved. As a matter of fact, God has commanded us to love Him, ourselves and our neighbors. God would not command us to do something if we aren’t capable of doing so. Sometimes we make the mistake of confusing love with infatuation. When we obey God we like God. God’s loves is unconditional. When we do this, we won’t withdraw our love when we are hurt or offended. Genuine love is not selfish or paranoid.
What do I mean by your day element? You day element is the element which your day pillar represents. For instance, today is 4th April 2010. Today is a Wood Monkey day. If you were born today, then your day element is Wood.
No one can make this happen for you, you alone are responsible and capable of feeling pure Double Ended Dildos which is not dependent on anyone outside of yourself. Falling in love with someone will show you how it feels to love, but you are still dependent on that person to continue your feeling. This is what the mystics have tried to teach us, that we must feel this love independently of anyone else, not that we should not feel the full passion of our emotions and be contained.
Even if you live in a nondescript house and you work as an accountant, you can still make your life sound exciting. Get creative with it and pretend you’re writing a mystery novel. You don’t have to get too crazy with it, but try to be mysterious, intriguing and try to keep her guessing as to what you do or what you’re into. The more fun you have with it, the more you’ll stand out from other guys on the dating site you’re on and the more success you’ll have overall.
There are things that women wished their men knew about. Women try to tell men what they really need using many ways, but are men paying attention to them? On top of the list what women need is to be loved, to be treated like a woman, to be listened to and well taken care of.
To me, romance can be gestures of affection that remind me that I am special in your eyes and in your heart. Its not about getaways to secluded islands you see in movies. But rather, a personal message, a thought, a break from the routine, or flowers every once in a while. Please don’t let this rule out the romantic getaway, if that is what you had in mind 🙂 To explain it in another way, women have an ’emotional bank account’ that needs regular little deposits. And you will be amazed how much interest builds up for you. romance can lead to many things; a match that starts a passionate flame, the glue that unites a relationship, a door to greater sensual pleasure, the building blocks of a stronger marriage.
Let’s start from her Husband element first. Since she was born on a Metal day, Fire represents her husband element. The presence and strength of the husband element determines whether a woman is likely to get married.
The important thing to create romance is to have fun. Do not take it too seriously, and do not think about your office work during that time. Many distractions from work can demolish the romance.